by Brenda Nixon
A college student, preparing a paper about the Amish, read my blog and emailed me with questions. Thought I’d share some of her curiosity with you.
That led her to reiterating the rumspringa question . . .
Do all the Amish participate in rumspringa? Could this be an element of the controversy about the cast of Breaking Amish & the rumors that they had already left the Amish? Maybe people thought they left the Amish earlier, but they were actually in rumspringa?
No.
What acts will get a person shunned?
Depends upon the order. In the Swartzentruber, something as minor as laughing in church gets one in trouble. Monroe was shunned for two weeks, by his mom, for trimming his Dutch Boy haircut too short – his earlobes were showing.
When a person is shunned, does the church expect their family not to talk to them at all? I noticed in Breaking Amish some families still talked to the shunned person briefly while others would not talk to them at all. Is it a difference in the churches or the families?
Shunning is complex. I suggest you read my post Shunning, What’s it All About?
It seems like many of the Amish rules & traditions they present on Breaking Amish are true to life. Do you agree with that, & if not, what do you believe is not factual about Amish culture?
Truthfully, I’ve watched Breaking Amish twice – once was with my son-in-law who is former Swartzentruber Amish. He was offended at the false information & wanted me to protest to the producers. Amish Mafia is another scripted “reality” show – the main character “Lebanon Levi” had been English (non-Amish) before this show signed him.
I noticed that you referred to Breaking Amish as fiction. Do you believe the entire show is fictional or just certain aspects of it? If just certain aspects, which parts do you believe are fake & why?
Since I’ve watched it only twice, I’m not qualified to pick apart each episode. Many of my former-Amish peeps think it’s rubbish, and that the show makes Amish look stupid, and all former-Amish as wild and combative. I will say that there are various Amish orders, and this show doesn’t make that fact clear to the viewing public.
Next week, I’ve the expert on Rumspringa! Return and read psychology professor Richard Stevick’s guest post revealing his studies of Amish youth and Rumspringa. (I’ve frequently explained that the uber strict Swartzentruber Order doesn’t use this term nor excuse their youth for a year of “running around.”) You’ll be surprised what Professor Stevick has discovered. And you can buy his NEW BOOK Growing Up Amish: The Rumspringa Years.
